Narrations Of Abuse Against Men in The Upper Tanudan Communities: Basis for A Gender and Development Program

Abstract

The Upper Tanudan communities in Northern Philippines are characterized by a deeply entrenched culture of masculinity. In this context, our research aims to illuminate the often-overlooked issue of abuse against men within these communities. Employing a qualitative research approach, specifically utilizing the phenomenological method, we conducted in-depth interviews with 18 participants to unravel the prevalence, nature, and consequences of abuse experienced by men. Our findings shed light on distressing indicators of violence faced by men in these communities, which include forced obedience, economic abuse, controlled emotion, and abusive language. These forms of abuse are compounded by significant barriers to disclosure, such as the societal pressure to maintain a 'macho' image, the absence of supportive legal frameworks, and the pride that often inhibits men from speaking out about their experiences.

Drawing upon the narratives shared by our participants, we put forth the concept of the BERKS Society (Building Equality and Resilience through Kindness and Solidarity). This proposed initiative aims to create a safe space where men can openly express their experiences and find much-needed support. By addressing the root causes of abuse against men, particularly in traditionally masculine communities, the BERKS Society seeks to promote gender equality, human rights, and combat gender bias. This research not only highlights the urgent need to recognize and address abuse against men but also presents a tangible solution in the form of the BERKS Society. Through this initiative, we hope to contribute to a more inclusive and equitable society where all individuals, regardless of gender, can live free from the shackles of abuse and discrimination.